On my 43rd birthday, I sat on the stone wall of Cartagena watching the sunset, grateful I’d finally stopped waiting for someone to come with me. From dancing salsa with strangers and sharing secrets in hidden bars to tasting fresh fish on island beaches and sipping coffee on a mountain farm, these six days in Cartagena and Medellín reminded me what happens when you choose yourself — and stay curious enough to say yes.

When an unexpected friendship sparked a calling I couldn't ignore, I found myself on a solo journey to Greece — carrying a forgotten bag, chasing flavors, and celebrating my 42nd birthday in a place that felt like home from the moment I arrived. This is the story of how I found courage, connection, and a new sense of belonging under the Grecian sun.

What started as a solo birthday trip turned into an unforgettable Icelandic road trip with a friend—complete with hot springs, glacier hikes, tomato greenhouses, and windswept adventures. From the surreal landscapes of Reykjanes to the serene beauty of Diamond Beach, I’m sharing everything we did (and learned!) to help you plan your own epic escape.

After postponing my dream trip in 2020, I made a promise to ring in my 40th year somewhere unforgettable—and Peru checked every box. From the dunes of Paracas to the magic of Machu Picchu and the boho beauty of Lima’s Barranco neighborhood, I mapped out a 10-day adventure through South America’s most iconic spots (with a few hidden gems too). This guide is packed with tips for planning your own Peru itinerary, including what I’d do differently next time, how to book Machu Picchu tickets the smart way, and why a boutique hotel in Lima completely stole my heart.